BY NORA WENDEL

DATING AND RELATIONSHIP PSYCHOLOGIST

Clear your past love wounds, radiate femininity, attract + create the emotionally secure relationship that you yearn for.

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I need to soften
To receive

I need to soften my hard edges of reality
My knife edge of protection
My box of spiked corners
My walls of no.

I need to soften my frozen petals
Melt them before they crack

I need to soften my smile into one of knowing
Instead of one of secret seduction

I need to soften to receive.

I need to soften my grip
My fingernails digging into the earth, dirty, desolate, desperate.

I need to soften my gaze.
The piercing distrust, mistrust, judgement and fear.

I need to soften my clenched jaw
My sigh, moan, cry
Scratching at my throat
daring me to release

I need to soften my aching longing
My body moving,
Dancing to my desire.

I need to soften

soften

For when I do
My no becomes my yes
My box becomes my container
My smile becomes my secret
My cries become my pleasure

And my body becomes my temple.

-soften

Nora

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Hey There!

I’m Nora and teach frustrated women who are over 30 how to clear their emotional baggage, limiting beliefs and past love wounds that are stopping them from attracting and creating their ‘relationship-of-my-dreams’.

Whether you are single and BORED AF with dating all these non-committal men and just want to meet your man…

Or you are in a relationship that’s like a disney rollercoaster with fighting, ‘shit-I-shouldn’t-have-said-that’ and days where you start to question if he really is the one for you…

I can help you create + attract emotionally secure hot, fun and wildly yum relationships.

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