I’m so OVER hearing this…
Listen up, and yes this is a rant ‘cause some things just got to be said!
In every single relationship it’s YOUR responsibility to LOOK AT WHAT’S GOING ON FOR YOU.
Relationships are never one sided.
It takes two to form a relationship.
You + the other.
If your relationship doesn’t work out it’s also YOUR RESPONSIBILITY.
Do you take only 30% or maybe 65% ownership for your life? (Here’s a hint – it’s always 100% ownership love)
EVEN if your man cheats on you, lies to you, abuses you in any way…
Where are your boundaries?
Are you facing your fears?
Have you looked at your love wounds?
Did you communicate well enough?
Your life is your responsibility, and always will be.
Too often we fall into victim mode, it’s disempowering. (And yes some of us need support to get out of it, that’s what professional help and support is for!)
There is no blame. Not even self blame (it doesn’t help but make you feel shitty).
Instead ask;
What did I learn from this?
How can I have been more empowered?
What are my wounds that need to be looked at?
What were the events that lead to this?
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Why would you ever be in a relationship with a man who also doesn’t take 100% responsibility for himself and the relationship?
There’s still so much to learn about love, dating and relationships because we are never given the instruction manual of HOW.
So many of us are HURT and don’t even know about the wounds which bleed and stain our own bedsheets.
👏🏼 take responsibility ladies.
If you don’t know how. Comment Below – I’ll tell you the questions to ask yourself.
xo Nora
