It sucks to feel shitty about yourself. Bad vibes all around and no one wants to hang out with a Negative Nancy now do they?
Maybe you have never considered that you have low self esteem. What is that you ask and how do I know if I have it?
Take a look at these 4 ways to know you have low self esteem and see whether they apply to you or not;
You feel guilty for saying no even if it doesn’t feel good for you or work for you.
Saying yes constantly means you are negativing yourself and your own existence, it will never make you feel good. You are saying yes because you think by saying no you won’t be liked or loved by the person asking you.
You constantly doubt everything in your life
Constantly doubting everything means you don’t trust yourself. You don’t trust your decisions, you don’t trust other people.
It’s a very tiring place to be in where you are always on the lookout for something bad to happen to you.
You hate yourself daily.
Hate is a pretty strong word, and yet so many women look in the mirror (or even can’t bear to look at themselves in the mirror) because they don’t like the person standing in front of the mirror. You can’t live an amazing life if you don’t like the person who is creating it (YOU!)
You are scared of what other people think of you (your clothes, what you say, what you post)
Fear of judgement is a crippling fear and will stop you from leading a bigger life. What other people think about you is only a reflection of their own fears, stories, upbringing and beliefs. Fearing them means you will never be able to be who you truly want to be which just leads to internal frustration and self hate.
Which one of these statements feels like it’s 100% you?
Can you see how low self esteem is stopping you from living a life filled with effortless pleasure and effortless luxury?