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Just go for it
Just go for it
BY NORA WENDEL
DATING AND RELATIONSHIP COACH
Clear your past love wounds, radiate femininity, attract + create the “relationship-of-my-dreams”
A few weeks ago (or was it a few months ago?) I struggled with the feeling of wanting it all and not knowing what to do. Maybe some of you remember that post.
In the time that has passed I have come to realize that I want to do the things that bring me JOY.
and Pleasure.
(For me the two are intertwined)
You see the more I thought about it, and all the things I wanted to do, the more I saw that I wanted to live an extra-ordinary life.
A life which fulfilled me and made me happy.
And what makes me happy and makes me fulfilled?
Doing the things that bring me joy and pleasure. (OK this may sound like a ‘duh’ statement but hang in there)
Thinking back to all the things I DIDN’T do because someone had told me it wasn’t right, or that shouldn’t be my focus. I saw that I should have done them anyway because it would have brought me joy.
I want joy NOW. Right this instance, and for that to happen I need to start doing the things that bring me joy RIGHT NOW.
And so I have.
👉🏻 I decided two weeks ago to run an Instagram training for those who want to learn how to use Instagram for business. (Next training all about Instagram stories is on the 14th of Aug peeps – hit me up if you are interested)
👉🏻 I decided to host bi monthly women’s events at my house because I LOVE TO HOLD SPACE
👉🏻 I decided to spend even less time on my bigger company The Photo Forest because it didn’t bring me joy (ultimately I may just close it down – but I am taking it step by step)
👉🏻 I decided to start intermittent fasting as a way to see how committed I was to feeling good. (I feel GREAT by the way 2 weeks in)
👉🏻 I decided to get serious understanding how manifesting works and to believe I am an amazing manifestor (go listen to Abraham hicks – he is changing my life, and indeed I have turned into a master manifestor)
👉🏻 Just this morning I decided to create my own oracle deck (call it a tarot deck, goddess deck…whatever you want) and have already wrote out 20 of the cards and their meanings in 15 minutes as I was eating lunch
👉🏻 and that retreat I wanted to lead? I’m going to do one in December of this year, max 10 women, in a private villa here in Ubud, because why the F not?
Exactly that.
Why the F not?
I am doing the things that bring me JOY (and planning in the future for the things that bring me joy too!)
The more I do the things that bring my joy, the more joyful I feel, the more joy comes into my life the better my life gets, and the more amazing JOYFUL manifestations are happening to me.
I feel JOYFUL. That’s the key, JOY is my focus and everyone and everything around me is responding with joy.
So I ask you…
How do you want to feel?
What can you do to feel that way?
Start, start right now.
Feel it.
‘Cause when you do feel it, it doesn’t stop, the universe keeps throwing that same feeling at you and you start to laugh and cry at the same time (like I did in 5 rhythms dance this morning) ’cause life just get’s better and better.
I teach highly successful and driven women how to release their past emotional baggage so they can have the thriving and healthy relationship of their dreams with mind blowing sex.