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5 Steps To Get Over Your Insecurities

5 Steps To Get Over Your Insecurities

BY NORA WENDEL

DATING AND RELATIONSHIP PSYCHOLOGIST

Clear your past love wounds, radiate femininity, attract + create the emotionally secure relationship that you yearn for.

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Insecurity is UNS€XY. [There I said it. And this is a rant!]⁠

Looking in the mirror; a bit of Botox on the brow, tuck under the chin, folds by your belly, veins on your legs. Hands scour your body seeing it’s flaws.⁠

Cover up, hide, feel shameful.⁠
Saying no to going out.⁠
Saying no to being fully naked (lights off only?)⁠

Feeling inadequate, not enough, wanting more, wanting what SHE has.⁠

Not smiling because your teeth aren’t straight.⁠
Not wearing shorts because your thighs rub together.⁠
Not dancing because you feel like an idiot.⁠
Not saying yes to the party because you’ll only know one person there.⁠

Resonate?⁠

The good news is we ALL have some form of insecurities, some of us just don’t let it rule our lives because we truly *get* that it doesn’t matter.⁠

Now you’re probably asking- HOW did you reach that stage of moving past your insecurities?⁠

This is the core of what I’m teaching in my new 12 week in depth program “The School Of Feminine Magnetism”⁠

I’ll outline it here briefly;⁠

1. Look at where you feel inadequate⁠
2. Trace it back to childhood memories⁠
3. Integrate those memories⁠
4. Create new thoughts using brain reprogramming⁠
5. Embody and FEEL the new way of being⁠

Step 5 is key because I know you KNOW you shouldn’t feel insecure, yet you still feel it.⁠

COGNITIVE DISSONANCE ⁠
The gap between knowing and feeling and this gap causes immense internal conflict.⁠

If you are ready to stop letting your insecurities rule your life, come join my live group coaching program – The School Of Feminine Magnetism.



Xo Nora⁠

And here’s the last part- insecurity is uns.xy because men can sense it in you as neediness in validation, “text me”, “tell me I’m beautiful” or “will he leave me?” ⁠

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You can’t tease my thoughts if underneath it you are thinking “does he mean that?”, “he’s lying”, “can’t be true”.⁠

Teasing is all about flirting with the mind and if your mind is insecure you’ll shut it down. Where’s the feminine fun in that?⁠

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Hey There!

I’m Nora and teach frustrated women who are over 30 how to clear their emotional baggage, limiting beliefs and past love wounds that are stopping them from attracting and creating their ‘relationship-of-my-dreams’.

Whether you are single and BORED AF with dating all these non-committal men and just want to meet your man…

Or you are in a relationship that’s like a disney rollercoaster with fighting, ‘shit-I-shouldn’t-have-said-that’ and days where you start to question if he really is the one for you…

I can help you create + attract emotionally secure hot, fun and wildly yum relationships.

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