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Nora Wendel Holistic Relationship Coach for Women

I create spaces where your nervous system exhales, your heart softens and love stops being something to chase and starts being something you become.

Whether you’re a woman tired of attracting emotionally unavailable men, or you’re in a relationship that feels “almost right” but not quite fulfilling…

Whether you’re craving deeper intimacy, healthier boundaries or a circle of humans who get it

My work is where therapy meets embodiment, connection meets community and healing meets real-world change.

From 1:1 sessions to candlelit circles this is where you learn to love better, feel safer and finally come home.

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How to be a QUEEN to attract your KING

How to be a QUEEN to attract your KING

BY NORA WENDEL

RELATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY

For those who crave real connection. Heal patterns. Love deeper.

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There’s a clarity, lightness, joyfulness that you feel once you get to know yourself on deeper levels.⁠

Triggers still happen yet it activates you instead of keeping you stuck in a cyclical loop.⁠

Anger still bubbles occasionally yet you know what lies beneath that is a need that is not being heard.⁠

Conflict still arises yet you know how to listen and how to be with the other persons perspective so it goes no further than “I get you.”⁠

Internal tension still exists yet you know how to ask yourself the questions that provide relief.⁠

There is no one who wants you more than you want yourself. Are you allowing that longing to blossom?

It’s my belief that we are here on this journey of life for the simple fact to get to know ourselves more.⁠

It’s been 9+ yrs of my own personal development journey that was once filled with self hatred that has now turned to a fascination of how I function (subconscious programming) and how I show up (behaviour choices).⁠

It’s easy to just say “I love myself more than I ever did” & at the same time that doesn’t even begin to encapsulate the FEELING I have inside me – it sounds surface level.⁠

I contain both oceans that storm and lap with rose petals at my feet.⁠

It’s only in this deep knowing that I can share me with you.⁠

It’s only in this deep knowing that I can be the permission field of possibilities for you.⁠

It’s only in this deep knowing that I can be even more of me.⁠

The best question you can ask yourself to start this journey of unravelling the sweet scented petals of your being is; “what’s underneath this?”⁠

What’s underneath this reaction?⁠
What’s underneath this feeling?⁠
What’s underneath this question?⁠

Keep asking.⁠
Your subconscious mind will always answer your questions.⁠

If you want to be guided on a deeper journey to finding who you truly are without any of your fears, blocks, false ideas of who you can or cannot be, I am here.⁠

This is what I’ll be guiding in The School Of Feminine Magnetism my in depth 12 week group coaching program for women sick of not living their truest potential.⁠

Being ALL of themselves in all the ways.⁠


Xo⁠
Nora⁠

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Hey There!

 Hi, I’m Nora Wendel (MSc Psychology), and I work in the field of Relational Psychology. I’m here for the ones who are done pretending, starving for something real, and secretly aching to be seen, not just in life, but in love.

In my world, masks come off and both connection and relationships get raw, alive, and wildly human.

With a mix of psychology, psychotherapy tools, and nervous system magic, I guide you out of your head, into your body, and into the kind of love and connection we’re all craving…the kind that feels safe, electric, and deeply alive.

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