Want to get CLARITY on your messy love life?

Download my *free* journaling prompts that dive into feelings, past patterns, dreamy man desires and more to get that crystal-ball-clarity on what you want in your dream relationship.

Nora Wendel Holistic Relationship Coach for Women

Helping women over 30 clear their emotional baggage, attract emotionally available men and have the “relationship-of-my-dreams”

My favourite topics to write about.

Click below to read my blog posts on that topic.

As if LOVE was a bad thing

As if LOVE was a bad thing

BY NORA WENDEL

DATING AND RELATIONSHIP COACH

Clear your past love wounds, radiate femininity, attract + create the “relationship-of-my-dreams”

Like this? Share it!

I’ve been diving deep into the idea, embodiment and feeling of LOVE this week.
It’s been all encompassing, eye opening, deeply triggering and just what I love (literally).
You see I am fascinated by how we STOP ourselves from loving fully because we FEAR the pain when the love ends (I don’t actually believe love ‘ends’ it just changes form).
What is wrong with the way we are viewing/embodying/feeling LOVE that we don’t allow ourselves to fully immerse in the beauty of it?
AND I do get it as well, it’s us protecting ourselves from the deep pain we feel when we have given love and it hasn’t been returned in the way we expected or wanted it.
How we love is defined by how we perceived our parents loved us (or didn’t love us). We either fall into the same type of loving or completely go the opposite (filling in the love we didn’t get). Think about how you love now.
Are you 100% fully IN love with loving?
Love can look and feel different for all of us.
I ask you take a moment to think about how you love.
I never really pondered about it until this week, when I was confronted with an opportunity to be in a relating relationship with a man. (More about why I call it a relating relationship rather than just a relationship in another post…)
I recognized how intimidated by love we are (we as a collective and we as ME)
As if loving fully was a bad thing.
What is it going to take for us to allow love back into our lives?
Love without fear
Love without boundaries
Love without end
Fearing love means we are stopping it in our lives.
Which means we don’t allow for the full possibility of love in our lives. We stop it from blossoming.
I find that incredibly sad, don’t you?
Let love back in, love for love’s sake not for love for heartbreak’s sake.
xo
Nora
Want to learn how to love fully? I invite you to come and chat with me about WHAT that may look and feel like in your life. Book in here: www.calendly.com/norawendel/chatwithnora
As if LOVE was a bad thing

Hi, I’m Nora.

I teach highly successful and driven women how to release their past emotional baggage so they can have the thriving and healthy relationship of their dreams with mind blowing sex. 

Struggling with finding love or keeping love?

Apply to work with me 1-1 here.

WANT TO BECOME MAGNETIC?

Join my free FB group where you can ask all the questions you were always ashamed to ask about your womanhood.

LEARN FROM ME.

Choose your biggest struggle below

MOST LOVED

Continue to be inspired by my blog posts

What Men Look For In A High Value Woman

Men want to earn your devotion.  ⁠ You’ve just met a man, he excites you, makes...

How To Stop The Online Dating Trap

How To Stop The Online Dating Trap ❌ (and yes we have all been there!)⁠⁠...

How to be a QUEEN to attract your KING

  There’s a clarity, lightness, joyfulness that you feel once you get to know yourself...

How to find Your Soul Mate

Here’s a step by step breakdown of what YOU can do in order to find a man who ADORES you....

What Men Look For In A High Value Woman

Men want to earn your devotion.  ⁠ You’ve just met a man, he excites you, makes...

5 Steps To Get Over Your Insecurities

    Insecurity is UNS€XY. [There I said it. And this is a rant!]⁠ ⁠...

How to be a QUEEN to attract your KING

  There’s a clarity, lightness, joyfulness that you feel once you get to know yourself...

How to find Your Soul Mate

Here’s a step by step breakdown of what YOU can do in order to find a man who ADORES you....

HEY GORGEOUS!

Want to learn my *secret* tool to feel feminine and sexy af?

If you want to turn up your erotic feminine.

If you want to be the most noticed woman in the room.

Download my *free* Feminine Magnetism Meditation right now.

You’ll understand why when you do this easy, fun practice 🔥