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8 Signs Your Feminine Energy Is Depleted

8 Signs Your Feminine Energy Is Depleted

BY NORA WENDEL

RELATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY

For those who crave real connection. Heal patterns. Love deeper.

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⁠⁠Feeling stuck, feeling disconnected from your body, feeling un-fun, dressing to hide your body, hard hitting on your to do list all the time, always doing things for others, avoiding compliments…⁠⁠
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All signs you are not in your feminine energy.⁠⁠
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Why is this even important? All this masculine and feminine energy BS you say, it doesn’t apply to me…⁠⁠
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I’ll share with you how it does affect you without you even knowing it!⁠⁠

 

 

 

First here are the 8 signs you are not in your feminine energy;

 

1. YOU FEEL “STUCK” IN LIFE

Fluidity, creativity and flow are feminine qualities. Feeling stuck in your life is a sign that you are ignoring a deeper intuitive message from yourself.

 

2. YOU FEEL DISCONNECTED FROM YOUR BODY

Self hate, negative thinking, being self critical are all making you disconnect further from your body and ultimately your potential for pleasure, being in pleasure is a full feminine trait.

 

3. YOU AREN’T FUN ANYMORE

⁠⁠Play is an essential feminine quality that attracts the polar opposite, the masculine man. Being too serious in your life isn’t doing you or anyone around you any good.

 

4. YOU DRESS LIKE A MAN

Boardies, granny panties, big t’shirts – where’s the elegance, style and class of a lady? Feminine dressing doesn’t mean dresses or skirts. It means choosing clothes that feel good and make you feel sexy.

 

5. YOU FEAR DEEPER INTIMACY

Intimacy means vulnerably as that’s how two people connect. If you fear deeper intimacy it means you are blocking your heart from fully loving. What’s the reason it’s so scary for you?

 

6. YOU ARE ONLY TASK ORIENTED

Doing is the opposite of BEING. The feminine thrives on being, that’s when intuition, flow, inspiration and creativity can be allowed to be received. Stop doing so much.

 

7. YOU NEVER TAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF

It’s always about others, making sure friends, family etc come first. Without that connection time to yourself, you forget about who you are and what YOUR desires are. Take time to simply be with yourself.

 

8. YOU CAN’T RECEIVE

Pleasure, gifts, compliments it doesn’t matter what, you feel awkward when you have to receive, usually you are also a people pleaser in this case. Learning to receive is part of cultivating your feminine.

 

If you are feeling like you are struggling right now (struggle in any of the above, and even in love, dating, finances, communication, career, health) it’s a subtle indication you aren’t in your feminine energy.⁠⁠
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Feminine is about flow – think back to a time in your life when it was all going smooth, great, uplifting, empowering, it felt easy right?⁠⁠

There’s a shift in your nervous system when you allow more feminine energy to embrace your being. It’s a deep internal sigh of relief.⁠

“Ah I’m not trying to be anyone else but me”⁠

And men just LOVE a woman who embraces her feminine side, there’s a subconscious attraction with the polarity between masculine and feminine.⁠⁠
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Men want to protect.⁠⁠
Men want to provide.⁠⁠
Men want to feel useful.⁠⁠
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A feminine woman unconsciously makes a man feel all the above.⁠⁠
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Doesn’t mean you can’t be in your own independent power ladies, like I said – subtle attraction psychology at work here!⁠⁠
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⁠What I’m talking about is a shift from pushing to allowing and that feels like AHHHHHHHH *exhaling*⁠

I help women who feel disconnected from their sensuality, sexuality, who are overly self critical and who want to have a healthy relationship with themselves so they can can a freaken’ FANTASTIC relationship with their dream man.⁠

It goes both ways love bug.⁠

If you’ve read this far you are probably looking at the energy dynamics in your life and questioning “is this me?”⁠

If you want to allow more feminine flow into your life so you can attract that sexy masculine man

The School Of Feminine Magnetism takes you through this step by step.⁠

Check out when the next launch of The School Of Feminine Magnetism is by clicking here.

 

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 Hi, I’m Nora Wendel (MSc Psychology), and I work in the field of Relational Psychology. I’m here for the ones who are done pretending, starving for something real, and secretly aching to be seen, not just in life, but in love.

In my world, masks come off and both connection and relationships get raw, alive, and wildly human.

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