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6 Daily Reminders To Get Yourself Motivated And Inspired

6 Daily Reminders To Get Yourself Motivated And Inspired

BY NORA WENDEL

DATING AND RELATIONSHIP PSYCHOLOGIST

Clear your past love wounds, radiate femininity, attract + create the emotionally secure relationship that you yearn for.

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MID WEEK REMINDERS FOR POWERFUL WOMEN 💥🔥💗

NO ONE HAS THEIR SHIT TOGETHER.
So stop comparing yourself to the idea of you thinking they have their shit together. Having your shit together in all areas of life isn’t the goal, it’s the process of deciding that messy is fine, imperfect totally works and whatever is, is just how it’s meant to be.⠀

 

IT’S ALWAYS WORKING OUT FOR YOU.
Even if it seems like it isn’t, it is. Why? Cause you are focussing on the ‘isn’t’ and not the way you want it to be, therefore it is working out for you just not the way you want it to. Make the way you want it to work the focus of your attention. It will work out for you 🙃

 

YOU ARE DOING SO MUCH MORE AMAZING THAN YOU THINK.
and let me add in, than you give yourself credit for. It never seems enough and therefore it will never be enough. Stop, think back to how you wanted to be here now, you are here now, now go and celebrate the F out of yourself.

 

EVERYTHING IS ENERGY.
Stop thinking your goals/desires are anything different. Thoughts = energy. The phone you are holding = energy. Energy counts, how are you using your energy (of thought) to create your reality.

 

YOUR BRAIN IS LYING TO YOU.
Don’t believe everything it tells you. It’s trying to keep you safe and alive. This means it doesn’t allow expansion into risk zones. Risk zones make us grow and what you want, that’s in the risk zone. Learn to understand your subconscious programming to stop letting it control you.

 

YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE STOPPING YOU.
Stop victimising yourself. Take self responsibility for your life, actions, thoughts. Dream bigger, even bigger. If you could do, be, have anything what would that look like? Why don’t you have it yet? There’s your list of the reasons you are stopping you.

Save this blog post for a reminder that a. Anything is possible b. Life is yours to create. c. If a + b don’t inspire you to laugh and realise it really is all about fun and play….it’s time to get yourself a coach cause you ain’t living up to your potential.

Forward this to your bestie so she can feel inspired too.

I love you.
Xo
N

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