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11 Mindset Questions To Ask Yourself To Tune Into Your Desires

11 Mindset Questions To Ask Yourself To Tune Into Your Desires

BY NORA WENDEL

RELATIONAL PSYCHOLOGIST

For those who crave real connection. Heal patterns. Love deeper.

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11 mindset questions to ask yourself to tune into your desires

 

 

What turns me on in my life is…

 

What turns me off in my life is…

 

Now that I feel turned on by my life I…..

 

If time and money were not an issue I would be ….

 

The thing I can talk to anyone about for hours and hours is….

 

If I didn’t have any shame, guilt, or negative outside influence what I would desire in my life right now is….

Now that I allow myself to follow the true desires that make me happy I….

If I restarted your life from scratch, where would I end up now….?

I know what I am allowing my desires to blossom because….

The number one thing I desire and don’t allow myself to have is… This is because…

I feel fulfilled when I…

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Hey There!

Hi, I’m Nora Wendel (MSc), a Relational Psychologist who refuses to do surface-level. I’m here for the ones who are done pretending, starving for something real, and secretly aching to be seen, not just in life, but in love.

In my world, masks come off and both connection and relationships get raw, alive, and wildly human.

With a mix of psychology, psychotherapy tools, and nervous system magic, I guide you out of your head, into your body, and into the kind of love and connection we’re all craving…the kind that feels safe, electric, and deeply alive.

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