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Want to Change your Life?

Want to Change your Life?

BY NORA WENDEL

DATING AND RELATIONSHIP PSYCHOLOGIST

Clear your past love wounds, radiate femininity, attract + create the emotionally secure relationship that you yearn for.

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Here are the 5 most important things you are going to need from yourself if you want to change your life; 

    1. Self Love
    2. Confidence
    3. Self Belief
    4. Trust
    5. Commitment

Why these five? These are the five foundational ways of being that will get you to where you want to go. Think about your life now. How are you showing up and what are the results of that? Are you hating on yourself because you don’t look the way you want to? Do you feel shy to speak up to your true desires?Have you got that negative self talk stopping you from really wearing, saying or showing up the way you want to? Are you controlling AF because you need to know exactly how to handle everything in your life? Have you been pushing friends, men or your partner away because deeper intimacy scares you?

Nodding your head there?

It’s time for a change.

It’s time to start BEING full of self love, confident, believing in yourself, trusting and fully committed to EVERYTHING you value in your life.

I’ll share with you why;

Self love because my sweets, if you don’t love yourself enough to admit that you want to change your life then it’s not going to happen. Accepting that you deserve better, acknowledging that you are not happy and still being able to love yourself for showing up is the first freaken step to ANYTHING.

Confidence is the ability to step into your fears knowing that you will be alright, confidence can be practiced, you can cultivate it by just imagining yourself as confident. If you want to change your life you’re going to need the confidence to make that first step.

Self belief is totally intertwined with confidence, self belief is the deepest core feeling that you know exactly what you need in life, it’s the confidence in your abilities to handle yourself in any situation.

Trust, trust, trust. Change triggers fear in many women, because with change comes the unknown. What if it doesn’t work out? What if I fail? What if I get hurt? Trust is the antidote of fearing change. It’s the knowing that you whatever happens you’ll be ok and you’ll figure it out.

Commitment is needed because change is never easy, it’s turbulent, it’s powerfully exhilarating, it goes your way and then maybe it doesn’t. But if you are committed to making the change in your life, you commit to yourself, to being messy and to being filled with exuberant joy. It’s the commitment that’s going to pull you through to the end result.

Stop thinking you have to DO in order to change, start BEING and see the changes start to unfold.

xo
Nora

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