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Nora Wendel Holistic Relationship Coach for Women

I create spaces where your nervous system exhales, your heart softens and love stops being something to chase and starts being something you become.

Whether you’re a woman tired of attracting emotionally unavailable men, or you’re in a relationship that feels “almost right” but not quite fulfilling…

Whether you’re craving deeper intimacy, healthier boundaries or a circle of humans who get it

My work is where therapy meets embodiment, connection meets community and healing meets real-world change.

From 1:1 sessions to candlelit circles this is where you learn to love better, feel safer and finally come home.

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The #1 thing women want in relationships

The #1 thing women want in relationships

BY NORA WENDEL

RELATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY

For those who crave real connection. Heal patterns. Love deeper.

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The #1 thing that women want in relationships…

Can you guess what it is?

 

 

SAFETY!

What makes you feel SAFE?

It’s the KEY to be able to express yourself s.xually, emotionally and vulnerably.

Here are the 5 pillars of how to create safety for yourself;

1. Forgiveness of the Past
2. Meeting Unmet Emotional Needs
3. Creating Trust
4. Cultivating Confidence
5. Figuring out Boundaries

You can’t just assume that you’ll feel safe (within yourself and with men) if you haven’t built the foundation of what safety means for YOU.

We all have different traumas, big or small.

What I teach is the framework for you to look within yourself and your past to then make the conscious choice to create who you want to be in the future.

I do that with neural brain rewiring. Sounds complicated and once you know the tools, it’s easy!

Book in for a no cost call with me here if you want to figure out how to feel SAFE in all your relationships.

xo Nora

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Hey There!

 Hi, I’m Nora Wendel (MSc Psychology), and I work in the field of Relational Psychology. I’m here for the ones who are done pretending, starving for something real, and secretly aching to be seen, not just in life, but in love.

In my world, masks come off and both connection and relationships get raw, alive, and wildly human.

With a mix of psychology, psychotherapy tools, and nervous system magic, I guide you out of your head, into your body, and into the kind of love and connection we’re all craving…the kind that feels safe, electric, and deeply alive.

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