BY NORA WENDEL

RELATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY

For those who crave real connection. Heal patterns. Love deeper.

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Open wide.⠀
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Let it in.⠀
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She whispered in my ear.⠀
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I didn’t want to listen.⠀
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I shut it out. Pretended to be busy in my busyness.⠀
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She continued to whisper not letting me go.⠀
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I heard her in the wind, birds, smiles of people passing me by.⠀
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Stop it, I wanted to cry.⠀
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Not me.⠀
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Not now.⠀
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I’m not ready.⠀
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But she wouldn’t let me go.⠀
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I continued on what I thought was my path.⠀
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Ignorant to her wise words softly caressing my dreams.⠀
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My coloured pen feverishly hitting my journal with angry prompts.⠀
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The sweat trickling down my breasts as I held on tight.⠀
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No.⠀
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Not yet.⠀
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She was still there. I could feel her sweet song as I opened my eyes every morning.⠀
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She was in the air, the ground, my toes and every time I closed my eyes to put my face up to the sun.⠀
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No.⠀
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Not yet.⠀
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I’m not ready. I said again.⠀
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She didn’t care. Persistent like the ant who never gave up sight of the morsel of hope.⠀
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It continues, this game.⠀
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It’ll never end.⠀
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Not till I have said yes.⠀
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Yes.⠀
Yes.⠀
Yes.⠀
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There I said it.⠀
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Crumpled in a pile on the floor like the clothes from yesterday.⠀
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Take me I said.⠀
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I’m yours.⠀
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Xoxox⠀
Nora⠀

$\'Open Wide\' She Whispered$

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Hi, I’m Nora Wendel (MSc Psychology), and I work in the field of Relational Psychology. I’m here for the ones who are done pretending, starving for something real, and secretly aching to be seen, not just in life, but in love.

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