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Nora Wendel Holistic Relationship Coach for Women

I create spaces where your nervous system exhales, your heart softens and love stops being something to chase and starts being something you become.

Whether you’re a woman tired of attracting emotionally unavailable men, or you’re in a relationship that feels “almost right” but not quite fulfilling…

Whether you’re craving deeper intimacy, healthier boundaries or a circle of humans who get it

My work is where therapy meets embodiment, connection meets community and healing meets real-world change.

From 1:1 sessions to candlelit circles this is where you learn to love better, feel safer and finally come home.

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BY NORA WENDEL

RELATIONAL PSYCHOLOGIST

For those who crave real connection. Heal patterns. Love deeper.

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With a love like this, who can’t also feel the love? A fun high vibe couples shoot here in Bali. How do you get genuine smiles people often ask me…you get them to do silly things like run and jump on each other, twirl each other around and tickle…that’s when the shutter goes and you can see the joy in the eyes.

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Nora

Core Wounds in Relationships: How They Show Up and How to Break Free

Ever have someone you’re dating make you feel like a younger version of yourself? Not in the good way — but in the “I just lost my chill over a text” way? That’s not you being dramatic.That’s a core wound in your relationship getting poked. What Core Wounds Are Core...

44 Ways To Feel Sensual As A Woman

We've all been there before. Feeling dry, exhausted, unsexy, libido waning, especially after this trying year of isolation and lack of intimacy. There are ways to cultivate your sensuality though, and it isn't just about slapping on some luscious cream after a bath...

18 Sexy Quotes To Say To Turn On Your Lover

Are you ready to be turned on? Read these next 18 sexy and hot quotes to your lover next time and watch their reaction.   “Eat me, Beat me, Bite me, Blow me, Suck me, Fuck me, Very slowly." "I like men with massive throbbing vocabularies." "Bite my lip and call...

4 roles that women take on to get validation in relationships

Which of these roles can you see in your adult relationships today? I coach women who are desperate to have the loving, erotic, intimate, conscious relationships they see online yet have no idea why they aren't attracted to their partners.   Scratching your head...

4 Ways To Know You Have Low Self Esteem

It sucks to feel shitty about yourself. Bad vibes all around and no one wants to hang out with a Negative Nancy now do they? Maybe you have never considered that you have low self esteem. What is that you ask and how do I know if I have it?   Take a look at these...

5 Steps To Get Over Your Insecurities

    Insecurity is UNS€XY. [There I said it. And this is a rant!]⁠ ⁠ Looking in the mirror; a bit of Botox on the brow, tuck under the chin, folds by your belly, veins on your legs. Hands scour your body seeing it’s flaws.⁠ ⁠ Cover up, hide, feel shameful.⁠...

What Men Look For In A High Value Woman

Men want to earn your devotion.  ⁠ You’ve just met a man, he excites you, makes you smile, he messages you after the date, you’ve got great conversation and you’re thinking ‘YES, finally!’⁠ ⁠ You feel ready to open up your heart to him, even though you feel a little...

How To Avoid The Toxic Tinder Trap

Why you keep desperately swiping on Tinder even though you know it’s toxic for you.⁠ ⁠ It’s evening and you find yourself back on Tinder, aimlessly swiping right on guys you don’t even find that attractive. It feels good yet guilty at the same time. The rhythmic...

Dating Again at 35+? Here’s What No One Tells You About Starting Over

Let’s face it: dating after 35 can feel like trying to navigate a minefield in high heels. It’s not the same as when you were younger—gone are the days of carefree hookups and “will they, won’t they?” Now, it’s more like, “Wait, is this guy emotionally available? Does...

Why Self-Help Alone Doesn’t Work: The Science of Relational Healing

Maya came to me after reading 4 books on attachment theory (Attached, Wired for Love, Insecure in Love and Hold Me Tight). She could explain her anxious attachment style in clinical detail. She knew exactly why she panicked when her boyfriend didn't text back...

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Hi, I’m Nora Wendel (MSc), a Relational Psychologist who refuses to do surface-level. I’m here for the ones who are done pretending, starving for something real, and secretly aching to be seen, not just in life, but in love.

In my world, masks come off and both connection and relationships get raw, alive, and wildly human.

With a mix of psychology, psychotherapy tools, and nervous system magic, I guide you out of your head, into your body, and into the kind of love and connection we’re all craving…the kind that feels safe, electric, and deeply alive.

FREE ❤️ LOVE RESOURCES

Check out some of my free guided meditations and free PDF's below to help you get clarity on what you want in a relationship and how to solve relationship issues.

LOVE HYPNOSIS MEDITATION

You can't attract + create the relationship you desire without *feeling* first what it is you want.

Download my love hypnosis meditation for free to tap into those emotions as you visualize your purrfect man and dream relationship.

FOR SINGLE WOMEN

BECOMING THE ONE TO ATTRACT THE ONE

Learn the ‘oh-so-easy-why-has-no-one-told-me-this-before’ tools to create that magnetic attraction again between you + your partner. Understand how men and women think differently in their needs and wants in a relationship and FINALLY get insight into why you are doubting your relationship and how to banish the doubt. P.s. This is a great masterclass to watch with your man as well!