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I create spaces where your nervous system exhales, your heart softens and love stops being something to chase and starts being something you become.

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Whether you’re craving deeper intimacy, healthier boundaries or a circle of humans who get it

My work is where therapy meets embodiment, connection meets community and healing meets real-world change.

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6 New Beliefs To Say To Stop Hustling And Do Business The Feminine Way

6 New Beliefs To Say To Stop Hustling And Do Business The Feminine Way

BY NORA WENDEL

RELATIONAL PSYCHOLOGIST

For those who crave real connection. Heal patterns. Love deeper.

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TRY ME BITCH. Tolerance level 0.⁠
I just had a major rant about the word HUSTLE in my newsletter.⁠⠀(not on my juicy sexy newsletter yet? Click here to sign up!)

No fucking way.

I hate hustling.

Hustling means I have to work hard.
Hustling means I have to push against what I don’t want.
Hustling means the opposite of flow.

I don’t run my own business in order to HUSTLE.
I run my own business in order to feel FREE, ALIGNED, HAPPY.

I decided on FEMININE FLOW.
I decided on FREEDOM TO BE ME.
I decided on MAGNETISM.
I decided on PLEASURE.
Who agrees with me 🙋🏽‍♀️?
I teach women how to have business that feels feminine, full of flow, abundant, luxurious.

 

Don’t tell me I need to hustle.

BUSINESS GETS TO BE EASY, FUN, PLEASURABLE & TOTALLY IN ALIGNMENT.

Hustle is masculine.⁠
I love me a good masculine energy and….

Hustle is a needy masculine energy.⁠

It’s believing you have to work hard to live a good life.⁠⠀What about construction workers then? They work FKN hard and do they have a good life? (ask them not me!)

I teach the art of feminine business for the reason that I DON’T WANT TO WORK HARD.⁠⠀

I believe you can attract clients by embodying the next level of you⁠⠀
I believe you can show up every day because you can’t wait to share your passion⁠⠀
I believe you don’t have to choose what you want to offer or sell, you can sell whatever you want whenever you want⁠⠀
I believe you can just be you and people will love you for it⁠⠀

THAT’S WHAT FEMININE BUSINESS IS ALL ABOUT.⁠

So repeat these 6 new beliefs daily:

I can attract clients by embodying the next level of me
I can show up every day because I can’t wait to share my passion and this is how I get whatever I want, by being me.
I don’t have to choose what I want to offer or sell, I can sell whatever I want whenever I want⁠.⠀
I believe I can just be me and people will love me for it⁠

The more me I am, the more money I make
I get to choose this to be easy, flowing and fun

Remember: You get to decide how you want to do business.


xo⁠
Nora⁠

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Hi, I’m Nora Wendel (MSc), a Relational Psychologist who refuses to do surface-level. I’m here for the ones who are done pretending, starving for something real, and secretly aching to be seen, not just in life, but in love.

In my world, masks come off and both connection and relationships get raw, alive, and wildly human.

With a mix of psychology, psychotherapy tools, and nervous system magic, I guide you out of your head, into your body, and into the kind of love and connection we’re all craving…the kind that feels safe, electric, and deeply alive.

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