BY NORA WENDEL

RELATIONAL PSYCHOLOGY

For those who crave real connection. Heal patterns. Love deeper.

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How To Stop The Online Dating Trap ❌ (and yes we have all been there!)⁠⁠
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Get online⁠⁠
Upload profile + pics⁠⁠
Swipe/Like/Heart⁠⁠
Message/Chat⁠⁠
Filter⁠⁠
Go on Dates⁠⁠
Get fed up⁠⁠
Decide to be single⁠⁠
Feel lonely⁠⁠
Get online⁠⁠
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Who’s been there 🙋🏽‍♀️?⁠⁠
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It’s the vicious cycle of online dating.⁠⁠

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Here are few tips on how to stop the cycle;⁠⁠

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1. The way you write your profile can already filter out the wrong type of men.⁠⁠

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2. There are certain questions you can ask during the message that will show you WHO this man really is and his values.⁠⁠

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3. There is a secret hack to going on real life dates that will get you to connect to a man on different levels where you will KNOW if he is the wrong (or right) man for you.⁠⁠

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4. Having a high level of self awareness on your own love wounds, past patterns, unmet emotional needs will prevent you from being attracted to a man who ISN’T GOING TO BE GOOD FOR YOU (this one is super important)⁠⁠

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5. There are certain feminine energy traits you can easily cultivate in yourself that high value men LOVE and will be attracted to.⁠⁠
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These are just a few tips that I know help single women who are struggling with finding the right man for them start attracting the men that they go *squeal* for 😍.⁠⁠
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Want more tips on dating + male psychology.?⁠⁠

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You don’t have to get trapped dating men that don’t want what you want ever again.⁠⁠

Check out my live group coaching program called The School Of Feminine Magnetism – 12 weeks of dating tips.

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Hi, I’m Nora Wendel (MSc Psychology), and I work in the field of Relational Psychology. I’m here for the ones who are done pretending, starving for something real, and secretly aching to be seen, not just in life, but in love.

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