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I create spaces where your nervous system exhales, your heart softens and love stops being something to chase and starts being something you become.

Whether you’re a woman tired of attracting emotionally unavailable men, or you’re in a relationship that feels “almost right” but not quite fulfilling…

Whether you’re craving deeper intimacy, healthier boundaries or a circle of humans who get it

My work is where therapy meets embodiment, connection meets community and healing meets real-world change.

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A MANIFESTO FOR SEXUALLY EMPOWERED ALIVE WOMEN

A MANIFESTO FOR SEXUALLY EMPOWERED ALIVE WOMEN

BY NORA WENDEL

RELATIONAL PSYCHOLOGIST

For those who crave real connection. Heal patterns. Love deeper.

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I wrote this manifesto for myself a few weeks ago and thought I would share with you, ultimately these are my values, my boundaries, how I want my life to play out (with lots of pleasure for sure!)

I titled this a manifesto for empowered and sexually alive women because women who are sexually free are powerful in owning their desires. It’s my hope that you read this and go “F*CK YES!”, I want ALL of that and more for myself too!

 

THE MANIFESTO 👄💗💥🔥

 

I am here to be well f*cked by life.
To allow myself to blossom in all the ways, always.

Turned on
Turned up.

I burn with the fuel of my ancestors.

My sex calls forth flames that will lick you raw thinking you can contain my desires and keep me small.

I won’t stop.
I won’t bow down to anyone but my highest self.

Rising and rising.
I dance amongst your attempts to shame, scare and stagnate all of me.

Empowered and empowering.

Queen, Empress, Mistress. Don’t you dare call me anything less.

Sit.
Sigh.
Sweep beneath my feet.

I have come to be my own saviour.
To show me how much of me I can be.

Let my juices of desire drip down your body as I devour the space I claim as mine.

I am me; full, fearless, fascinating.

Become entranced with my ashes as I rise and rise again because I simply won’t stay down.

I am magnificent in all my emotional glory.

Feel me.
Feel me deeper.

Beg me to teach you my ways.

Wide, wondrous, wild ways.

You won’t be able to get enough.
Your cup quivers in wait as the longing to be filled calls me forth.

Shhh, be still.

Watch me unfold
Petal by petal

As I blossom into all of me…

~

A manifesto of how I do life, of how I teach women to own the F who they are and how every woman has a right to feel.

THIS IS ME.

If you read this and were thinking, “I want this in my life too”, check out some of my empowerment courses. I am here to teach women how to reconnect back to their femininity, their power, their sexuality so they can live fulfilling and ALIVE lives.

 

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Xo
Nora

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Hi, I’m Nora Wendel (MSc), a Relational Psychologist who refuses to do surface-level. I’m here for the ones who are done pretending, starving for something real, and secretly aching to be seen, not just in life, but in love.

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