Why You Keep Attracting the Type of Same Partner: Wounds and Relationships

You don’t attract your soulmate, you attract your wound-mate. Are you wondering why you keep attracting the type of same partner maybe just with a different face? You have to understand your wounds and relationships. You see, until you start to integrate your core wounds, you’ll keep finding...

Why Self-Help Alone Doesn’t Work: The Science of Relational Healing

Maya came to me after reading 4 books on attachment theory (Attached, Wired for Love, Insecure in Love and Hold Me Tight). She could explain her anxious attachment style in clinical detail. She knew exactly why she panicked when her boyfriend didn't text back immediately because it triggered her...

Core Wounds in Relationships: How They Show Up and How to Break Free

Ever have someone you’re dating make you feel like a younger version of yourself? Not in the good way — but in the “I just lost my chill over a text” way? That’s not you being dramatic.That’s a core wound in your relationship getting poked. What Core Wounds Are Core wounds are the emotional...

Why You React Instead of Respond to Triggers: Core Wounds 101

Core wounds are the emotional bruises you picked up early in life (often in childhood) that quietly shape how you experience love, safety and belonging today. Every love relationship is going to bring out your core wounds. Not because the universe is cruel, but because love is the ultimate mirror....

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Hey there!

I’m Nora and teach frustrated women who are over 30 how to clear their emotional baggage, limiting beliefs and past love wounds that are stopping them from attracting and creating their ‘relationship-of-my-dreams’.

Whether you are single and BORED AF with dating all these non-committal men and just want to meet your man…

Or you are in a relationship that’s like a disney rollercoaster with fighting, ‘shit-I-shouldn’t-have-said-that’ and days where you start to question if he really is the one for you…

I can help you create + attract emotionally secure hot, fun and wildly yum relationships.

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Sort out your past love wounds, create the stable foundation for a healthy relationship and learn how to stay in a relationship that feels supportive, loving, epic and deeply committed.

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A Course to Reset How You Feel About Love, Dating, and Yourself…

Date Differently is a course that gives you a total nervous system reset for love. It’s about unhooking from old wounds, reconnecting with your inner magnetism, and finally dating from overflow.

3 video modules of 20min teaching  and a 4 extra bonus PDF workbooks to download.

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For the woman who wants to feel ease and pleasure in her life and stop the masculine exhaustion.

Feel calm, resourced, sensual, alive and like a WOMAN who is ready to give and receive not only from a man but from what the world has to offer. This is a membership portal with over 14 modules of video’s, masterclasses, PDF’s and guided audio meditations to help you come back home to yourself.

The foundation course in creating a healthy relationship.

If you want to learn the 4 foundations of what a healthy relationship is all about, this is a course for you. 4 weeks of 20min teaching modules and a workbook to download.

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A little about my own story…

I found myself with a one way ticket from Cape Town to Bali after my 3.5 yr relationship ended. I was living in Cape Town with my then man and boy did we have some issues! We were both playing the ‘withhold game’ and it’s no surprise that our relationship turned into one of resentments, frustration and wanting to get the hell away from each other.

On the plane, crying, sad and lonely I thought to myself… “surely, there’s a proper, easy and healthy way to have a loving relationship?” And there is.

I spent the next 5 years single in Bali dating the typical non-commital men just wanting a ‘good time’ all the while learning about feminine energy, healing my shame, how polarity in relationships creates turn on, that the key to any healthy relationship is conscious communication and most importantly WHAT ROLE I HAD TO PLAY in creating shitty relationships for myself.

 

Now I feel secure, confident, sexy AF and ready for a lasting love. Want that too?

Ladies! Want to go deeper and really understand how to create the relationship of your dreams?

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I love sharing my stories (I grew up in Nepal and India!) and my passion for personal development (former chronic anxiety sufferer here for 9+ years) and inspiring women to not settle for a man that absolutely everything she deisres.

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