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I think he’s got a point here, esp. the delayed

I think he’s got a point here, esp. the delayed gratification part.

Are we working too hard at not working hard?
And this means we aren’t willing to work hard at a relationship?

Are we constantly looking for the next best because there is always a next potential (someone hotter, younger, maybe closer to our lists?)

Let’s discuss ⬇️

Thanks @jjribi for the food for thought!

This may be an epic fail 🤷🏽‍♀️ (or the

I had to call out the ladies 🤓 the dysfunction

I had to call out the ladies 🤓 the dysfunction goes both ways.

Men love to hear from you! Did I hit some truths here?

And yes I know. This isn’t every woman on the island. And there are many, maaaany like this.

Gimme your thoughts!

Xox
Nora

Controversial post 🫣 [edited to add: didn’t r

Controversial post 🫣 [edited to add: didn’t realise how much this post would blow up and resonate with so many of you not only in Bali but around the world!]

Women only FB groups are filled with women commenting on the toxic dating culture that is Bali.

But Bali didn’t break dating. Modern culture did.

Bali just removed the infrastructure that used to hold people accountable.

No long-term community. No consequences. No pressure to commit.

Just endless freedom.

And saying all this: just remember there are men here who do want to commit and have done the inner work too.

[also edited to add: this post isn’t about me per se, it’s a social commentary about what I’ve heard and witnessed over the years]

Xo
Nora

P.s. Wanna work on your inner world to create the context for a healthy relationship? This is the work I do. DM me. ❤️

Dating coaches would say: ‘You’ll scare men aw

Dating coaches would say: ‘You’ll scare men away!’
Good.

The wrong men leave. The right men lean in.
Because I’m not here to play games. I’m here to build a life with someone who’s equally intentional.

And here’s what happens when you date like this:
You stop wasting 6 months wondering where it’s going.
You stop going home replaying every word.
You stop performing and finally feel like yourself.
The wrong men disappear in week one.
The right men lean all the way in because they’ve been starving for someone this real.

Your dates shift from small talk to actual connection.
You feel relief instead of anxiety.

But here’s what you need to understand:

You can’t date like this if you don’t know the answers to these questions yourself.

You can’t ask about his core wounds if you haven’t examined yours.

You can’t talk about past failures if you haven’t integrated what you learned.

You can’t state your communication standards if you don’t have clarity on what you actually need.

Intentional dating requires self-knowledge.

You need to know:
* Your edges
* Your wounds
* Your patterns
* What you actually want (not what you think you should want)
* How you sabotage
* What you need to feel safe

This is what I help women do.
We don’t just talk about ‘how to date better.’

We get clear on WHO YOU ARE so you can show up intentionally, not strategically.

So you can ask the real questions because you’ve already asked them of yourself.

So you can date from wholeness, not from proving or performing.

I have 2 spaces available for my November special offer:
5 Weeks to Transform Your Dating Life — €555

We work together 1-1 to:
✓ Get crystal clear on your wounds, edges, and patterns ✓ Identify what you actually want (and how to communicate it) ✓ Learn how to date intentionally instead of reactively ✓ Practice showing up real—not performing ‘high value’ ✓ Build the self-knowledge that makes conscious dating possible

DM me ‘INTENTIONAL’ if you want one of the 2 November spots.

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