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I think he’s got a point here, esp. the delayed

I think he’s got a point here, esp. the delayed gratification part.

Are we working too hard at not working hard?
And this means we aren’t willing to work hard at a relationship?

Are we constantly looking for the next best because there is always a next potential (someone hotter, younger, maybe closer to our lists?)

Let’s discuss ⬇️

Thanks @jjribi for the food for thought!

This may be an epic fail 🤷🏽‍♀️ (or the

I had to call out the ladies 🤓 the dysfunction

I had to call out the ladies 🤓 the dysfunction goes both ways.

Men love to hear from you! Did I hit some truths here?

And yes I know. This isn’t every woman on the island. And there are many, maaaany like this.

Gimme your thoughts!

Xox
Nora

Controversial post 🫣 Women only FB groups are

Controversial post 🫣

Women only FB groups are filled with women commenting on the toxic dating culture that is Bali.

But Bali didn’t break dating. Modern culture did.

Bali just removed the infrastructure that used to hold people accountable.

No long-term community. No consequences. No pressure to commit.

Just endless freedom.

But here’s the truth:

There ARE emotionally available men in Bali who want something real.

Men who want to build a life, not just have experiences.
Men who want a woman, who want family, who want monogamy.

They exist.

You just can’t see them.

Because you’re too busy:

Looking for what’s wrong
Complaining about Peter Pans
Protecting yourself from disappointment
Proving or waiting to be chosen

And while you’re doing that? The men who are actually ready are walking right past you.

Are you too busy being right about how broken dating is to notice the man who’s ready to build with you?

If this hit:
If you realized you might be blocking what you want:

I have 2 spots left for November.
5 Weeks to get aligned matches with men who want real — €555

We work 1-1 to:
✓ Identify what YOU’RE doing that’s keeping good men invisible
✓ Shift from complaining to discerning
✓ Stop performing and start showing up as yourself
✓ Learn to see emotionally available men

Open to any woman who thinks dating culture is toxic. Let me help you see differently because right now you are blind to the kinds of men that actually want commitment.

DM me READY to claim one of two last spots of my Nov. special

❤️

Dating coaches would say: ‘You’ll scare men aw

Dating coaches would say: ‘You’ll scare men away!’
Good.

The wrong men leave. The right men lean in.
Because I’m not here to play games. I’m here to build a life with someone who’s equally intentional.

And here’s what happens when you date like this:
You stop wasting 6 months wondering where it’s going.
You stop going home replaying every word.
You stop performing and finally feel like yourself.
The wrong men disappear in week one.
The right men lean all the way in because they’ve been starving for someone this real.

Your dates shift from small talk to actual connection.
You feel relief instead of anxiety.

But here’s what you need to understand:

You can’t date like this if you don’t know the answers to these questions yourself.

You can’t ask about his core wounds if you haven’t examined yours.

You can’t talk about past failures if you haven’t integrated what you learned.

You can’t state your communication standards if you don’t have clarity on what you actually need.

Intentional dating requires self-knowledge.

You need to know:
* Your edges
* Your wounds
* Your patterns
* What you actually want (not what you think you should want)
* How you sabotage
* What you need to feel safe

This is what I help women do.
We don’t just talk about ‘how to date better.’

We get clear on WHO YOU ARE so you can show up intentionally, not strategically.

So you can ask the real questions because you’ve already asked them of yourself.

So you can date from wholeness, not from proving or performing.

I have 2 spaces available for my November special offer:
5 Weeks to Transform Your Dating Life — €555

We work together 1-1 to:
✓ Get crystal clear on your wounds, edges, and patterns ✓ Identify what you actually want (and how to communicate it) ✓ Learn how to date intentionally instead of reactively ✓ Practice showing up real—not performing ‘high value’ ✓ Build the self-knowledge that makes conscious dating possible

DM me ‘INTENTIONAL’ if you want one of the 2 November spots.

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