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Cleaning up my own values 🧹 I’m not saying t

Cleaning up my own values 🧹

I’m not saying this might be the only reason we feel lost, this is an incredibly nuanced subject, just like being a living human being is a BIG MESSY THING which we are ALL trying to figure out.

Just some thoughts on values vs goals.

Image of the Schwartz value diagram :

Refining the theory of basic individual values. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 103(4), 663–688

Dm me and I can send you another of his research papers to read.

Time to think about your values..maybe?

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There may be generalisations in this post. I can’t fit it all into 20 slides. Be kind. You are allowed different opinions. Don’t be rude in the comments.

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P.s. Understanding your core values helps you find direction in life including whether relationships are in alignment. If you want help, link in bio to book a discovery call with me to talk about me helping you figure out some things in your life. I got lots of questions. ❤️😋

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Nora

Calling myself out too 😳. I think most of us j

Calling myself out too 😳.

I think most of us just don’t like discomfort. We have no discipline when it comes to discomfort unless it directly relates to personal gains (like the gym?).

Third to last slide has some questions I’m asking myself.
Save and revisit for yourself.

Also, I’m not wrong am I?

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This is a social observation post. It may have generalisations.

You are free to disagree (or agree!) with me, my only stipulation is to be kind. Rudeness will not be tolerated.
My page = my rules.

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P.s. I work with men and women to help you find your own truths and clarity on the lives and relationships you want to build. I don’t have all the answers…I DO have a lot of questions that may help you find your own answers. DM or link in bio to book a discovery call with me.

I definitely DON’T have all the answers! I DO

I definitely DON’T have all the answers!

I DO have lots of questions 🙃

Many DM’s and comments asking for a solution, there isn’t ONE that can be generalised, it’s more about what you VALUE.

And maybe, just maybe, it’s time to check-in with yourself and see if the life you thought you wanted is actually working for you?

Here’s some things to think about!

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Be kind in the comments. I welcome varied viewpoints wholeheartedly. I do NOT tolerate rudeness. You will be blocked without a second thought. My page = my rules.

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P.s. If you feel stuck, lost, lonely and want some guidance (great questions to help you get clarity) this is the work I do. Book in for a discovery call via my link in bio or send me a message.

X Nora

I’ve got a lot to say on this topic. I hear it

I’ve got a lot to say on this topic.

I hear it all the time; the deep desire for community, for partnership, for HOME.

“I’m building a conscious community in Portugal [costa rica, Thailand….I’ve heard it all]

“Where’s the community in Bali” (I get asked this a lot).

I get it. I want home, belonging, freedom, depth, partnership too.

Yet our choices come with giving up certain things.

Again this is a social commentary. An observation I’ve noticed the last years in the ‘freedom lifestyle’ community.

Thoughts?

P.s. I work with men and women to help figure out home, belonging, community, values and partnership. Book a discovery call via my bio or send me a DM if you want to have an in depth discussion about your life and what you want to create.

Xx

**edited to add*** This post is doing the rounds-

**edited to add***

This post is doing the rounds- fantastic AND I see many assumptions in the comments. Firstly, the assumption is this is the first time I would be meeting this person and/or having any conversation. Not true, I have plenty of conversations before the first meeting. Notice I didn’t say FIRST conversation, it’s a first date- and no, I don’t go with the flow. Not my style.

Secondly, yes, this is a polarizing viewpoint. I’m ok with that. You are free to share your opinion. Be kind. Rudeness won’t be tolerated.

Thirdly, as I work in the relational field, there’s a level of emotional maturity and self-awareness that my partner simply needs to have. Otherwise, it would be a misalignment. These questions do dive deep quick, AND reveal a lot about the emotional maturity, availability and mindset of the person.

Lastly, you don’t have to do what I do.

Xx

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Quick and dirty and deep. Give it to me on date 1.

I wanna know the real you.

And yes, this requires clarity, confidence and knowing YOURSELF too.

I’m a relational psychologist and I teach these things to people like you:

Identifying patterns
Understanding core wounds
Getting clarity on what you want
Conscious communication skills

I have 2 spots for my November offer (1 already taken):

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This isn’t just therapy. This is deep pattern work with someone who has done it themselves.

Here to make the dating world a better place for all of us.

Xo
Nora

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