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Self-awareness is the new HOT 🔥 Let’s talk a

Self-awareness is the new HOT 🔥

Let’s talk about what’s actually sx.yy when you’ve done the work.

It’s not just tall, dark, and texting back.

It’s congruence—when his words and actions line up.

It’s desire that’s clean, not performative.

It’s emotional transparency that says: I know who I am, and I see you.

As a psychologist and woman dating with her whole heart?

These aren’t nice-to-haves.
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I’m changing things in my coaching practice. It’s time and it excites me to be more congruent with myself.

May this inspire you in your own life.

And thank you @simone.grace.seol for modelling this for me so I could examine my own beliefs, practices and who I wanted to be in this world.

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Before I studied psychology, I thought being ‘ho

Before I studied psychology, I thought being ‘hot’ was about appearance 😂

Yet there’s something far more powerful:

Your energy and how you can hold yourself is what makes you magnetic.

When you heal the four psychological blocks I’ve outlined in this post, you automatically become more attractive—not because you’ve changed your appearance, but because you’ve changed your energy.

Research confirms it: people are drawn to those who make them feel safe yet excited.

This is what I mean by ‘healed and hot’, it’s the warmth of a woman who has done her inner work.

Save this post for the next time you feel triggered in your dating life.

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Ever been tempted to send a “?” or a “lol nv

Ever been tempted to send a “?” or a “lol nvm”?
Yeah… don’t do that. That’s your anxious attachment talking.

Here’s what to do instead if he’s gone quiet:

“Hey, I’ve really enjoyed our chats. If you’re still interested in getting to know each other, I’d love that. If not, no hard feelings.”

(I sent a variation of this just this morning to a bumble match!)

This does three powerful things:

It shows confidence and emotional clarity.

It puts the ball in his court, without begging for attention.

It keeps your standards high—and your energy sacred.

Dating isn’t about being chosen—it’s about staying in your power while someone reveals if they’re aligned.

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Let’s make one thing clear: you’re not here to

Let’s make one thing clear: you’re not here to water yourself down just to be digestible.

You’re here to be devoured by someone who can meet you.

The more you own your energy, your softness, your standards—the easier it gets to attract someone who actually wants to be there.

It’s not about being less.
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